Thinking of many things, I thought of something to summarize several main concepts on this site. It is not so much about Existentialism as having an understanding that we are on our own and anything that is not death is experience.
I dislike baby-carriage laws. These laws state by helping someone you become liable. It is better to not help anyone. Even when in a crowd, there is a chance no one will help. If assistance is faulty, whoever tried to help is wrong.
This makes it so someone attempting rape, despite several other people are nearby, you should fight back. There is a good chance you might be alone. Reliance on other people should be minimal.
Trauma and risks are dangerous. I entertain a lively crowd of people who constantly take risks. Even now, I am taking risk by deciding to write blogs. It is not really known as a stable market. The internet is improving and has helps an existing careers. I cannot think of anyone who actually made a lot of money on just the internet. They had to go to school and worked for an extensive time. Even the most internet friendly Salesperson, I can think of, spent years working in Sales while developing a network integrated website to pay bills. They still have to go to meetings and make face-to-face contact with several people.
Why does anyone feel propelled to help another person? It needs to be done. When there is no direct threat to personal safety, it is easier to talk about life and give advice. It is also important to not misrepresent products or services. I never said I was a Psychologist. Psychologist are also unable to save the lives of everyone.
Any advice anyone can offer is a miniscule part of someone overall life and experience. Thinking about frostbite, someone might decide the person telling them about frostbite is responsible for giving them frostbite. They already had frostbite. Advice helped them get medical attention.
Imagine someone drinking a warm glass of water. It feels as though it burns. They know a person can burn themselves on food or drink that exceeds 120 degrees Fahrenheit. They went to school to learn about safe living conditions in cold climates. They have Family and Friends who see them everyday. When water feels too hot, is the person who said, "You might have frostbite," responsible?
This person is someone who is an acquaintance. They see them in passing once-in-awhile. It could be at work or around the neighborhood.
Facts are the person suffering from frostbite is already frozen. They spent all winter without proper clothing or worry about the freezing cold temperatures. They thought they became super human. Cold air no longer bothers them. The water was not boiling, it was temped.
What happened to Family and Friends? Why did they not see the signs? After immature jokes about looking splotchy and being magical because the cold does not bother them, Family and Friends are also freezing to death. They did not see the signs. They are also unable to interpret the information. They did not buy more blankets or get warm winter clothing.
We can try to blame other people for problems. Many want to blame everyone around them after realizing a traumatic experience occurs. Suddenly there is an issue without answers. There are tasks to complete in order to avoid being close to the edge of death. It seems like it is this huge time consuming problem; however, it is preoccupying their mind. No one is making them think about it repeatedly. They need to have awareness of frostbite and think of a plan to avoid future problems. Several levels of existing methods of protection fail. Family and Friends are suddenly useless for protection. Life has a new dedication to resolve one issue.
Is the problem that big? It is because something threatening to life is happening. It seems as though it is all consuming problem. Life continues and you cannot forget lessons from past experiences. Except, the trauma or advice that causes awareness of a problem is a dot on a painting.
The overall life of a person is extensive. What makes that one dot spread and become an entire painting with trees, sky and waterfalls continually obsessing over the problem. It could be a painting of many near death experiences and continuing with life. It could be a tragic painting of confusion and fear.
This blog will not completely change a person's life. No one book, article or life experience will completely change a person's life. Taking the wrong advice or having trouble with the right advice will not completely change a person's life. Time is an ongoing event. We choose the best solution when a decision had to be made. We live and then modify the plan with a new decision. Events unfold according to new actions.
Everything is negotiable. There is always time to modify plans and make better decisions. It flows in a continuous order from one stage of life to the next.
After having frostbite, you will react more quickly in the future. There are books explaining several techniques to stay warm. That was not always true.
There was a time when people died in winter and no one knew why. Religions were made around finding something that helps. It seemed magical. Build your home with windows and doors to the south. It will bring you luck and prosperity. It will infuse you will energy and livelihood. Anyone building homes with stronger walls towards the cold northern air opened their doors to the southern air. It is only slightly warmer, yet they lived longer and fewer family members died.
It would be nice if no one suffered. We all suffer sometime. We are given infinite amounts of information. Some of it is useless. There is not as much reason to remember when it is trivial. There are many things in life that have no answer or cure. We are able to make problems less awful. We are always where we are all-the-time. It feels good to know there is always someone around who can defend me, even when that person is me.
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