Balance of Psychosis

It bothers me when someone says, "We are only human." It is usually after acknowledging they did something wrong to another person. That's why it is irritating, yet we are only human. Hopefully that acknowledgment is a sincere apology in recognizing something about their actions needs an adjustment. Even if a method of expressing wanting to avoid consequences we are only human.

With this in mind, it is easier to be nice to yourself and people rather than become overly mechanical about every issue in life. Frequently what we observe about other people is what we are struggling to fix in our own lives. Even when an action is a realization of a precise method for self defense and how to correctly experience life everyone should realize everyone will sometimes to something that aggravates someone else.

Reading a book about psychology, a person often believes they have everything in the book or someone they know has everything in the book. It is normal. In fact, a normal person has everything in the book; however, they find balance in their activities by accepting this about themselves and other people.

It is good to be narcissistic. Being self centered means there is probably a greater degree of independence and self preservation. There is less dependency on people to do everything and more resistance to other people influencing them, because sometimes other people's influences are invalid. A bit of a megalomaniac behavior assists in wanting to help other people. It gives someone a purpose to get outside of themselves and own needs to see other people more clearly even if it is to boss them around or understand other people better so they can get other people to do what they want. Together a normal person surfaces. Someone who is independent and conscientious of other people.

Close to every psychological aliment should be present in every individual. Together it is a cocktail of various problems to the awful outcomes of each tendency. Even masochism is important to maintaining a job. There will always be some part of a job that is lame. Even if it is the best job in the world. To keep that job a person has to inflict pain upon themselves in the form of discomfort in order to complete tasks. Since most people have to do that at work or get along with other people, it is called "compromise" or "determination." If someone decides to never suffer through a long lecture or wait until saving enough money, they would either have no friends or become destitute.

Functionally everyone finds a nice organization of psychosis that feels livable when going about daily life. Even people who criticize everything kind of irritate me. Everyone has something about them that helps make life better. A person could fixate on this or have courtesy by letting people be themselves. I could say they need to let it go or they are the one starting problems and contribute to a big ball of judging everyone. In fact, I might actually do that. Though judging them for judging for me, getting upset about it is probably a sign of something else going wrong in my life. That happens sometimes. Denial leads to several types of problems when the larger issue of gaining some control or self-control seems to be unyielding. Life is to large and complex to devise a better plan for handling problems.

Even then, letting people be themselves is different than becoming someone's chew toy or victim. Yes, they might have problems. Yes, it might not be that big of a deal to bend a bit so they have something also, yet at what cost to yourself. I understand people needing things, but I don't understand someone destroying someone's life in order to gain a thing. A person's life is far more valuable than stuff. Of course, having stuff is how people are able to survive independently, so materialism counteracts humanism. I really cannot say which one is better. People are more important, yet not at the expense of other people's lives, and definitely not their things.

Do you ever feel awkward? Do you ever feel as though there is a direct relationship between your actions and life not working out too well? You're probably right. Figure out what needs to be adjusted to return to a nice balance between many psychosis. I recommend testing out simple adjustments. Frequently all that which makes us human is also all that which makes love and friendship possible.

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