Notes for this site and self-help are linked to the main blog page. There are several tips on the website, yet they are difficult to find amongst the many past and future articles.
Most important tip is to see a professional Psychiatrist or Psychologist when necessary. This site assists people in becoming aware of people and themselves. There are a few articles with an association to unlocking and verbalizing subconscious information. Everyone has problems. When experiencing a mental block or feeling a memory is too threatening to cope with schedule appointments with a Psychologist. They are able to talk to a person one-on-one and address precise issues. This site mainly assists in identifying potential issues. This makes it easier to talk to people, yet it does not substitute personal care.
In addition to personal care, Psychologists are able to prescribe drugs. Psychologists have a plethora of coping methods. Regardless of preference between psychiatric health methods there is a strong connection between physical illness and mental illness. Debate concerning whether physical illness causes mental duress or mental duress causes physical illness is inconclusive. In either event psychological information and coping skills will not prevent a heart attack or deadly disease. See a Medical Physician to prevent heart disease, diabetes, hypothyroidism or cancer. Symptoms might seem as though it is mental duress since physical illness usually appears simultaneously.
As a person with depression I was treated for hypothyroidism. I am still depressed though suicidal depression is only now chronic. Curing the illness makes it easier to develop coping skills. If the thalamus becomes toxic it is deadly regardless of feelings.
Suppressed thoughts might be scary. Attempting to get in touch with traumatic memories will not overburden a person with fear or anger. This site is not hypnotic or explains any type of hypnosis. Even ChaKation contains simple, conscious exercises. They are performed in a relaxed state. Relaxing is not the same as hypnosis.
Since everyone is conscious the mind only allows information a person can cope with to resurface in their conscious memories. Unlocking a person's memory allows them reviews information to improve their life. Improving life makes it easier to distance one's self from prior trauma and make conscious changes in life because the memory is no longer as threatening.
Clarifying facts around events is an intimidating process. Sometimes people experience blackouts. They were probably experiencing blackouts previously and now are able to recognize when experiencing blackouts. Anything the mind wishes to suppress remains subconscious, yet they are as well as they were before. Memories do not change. Processing information is important. It is understandable that people with problems will have an attraction to this website because of content.
Recommendations for rehabilitation attempts are to work with a trustworthy friend or privately. Working with a trustworthy friend implies safety, yet they might be judgmental and do not take privacy oaths. They are not Psychiatrists or Psychologists. Family and friends are available for moral support and equally likely to engage in less than accommodating behaviors. There is a limit to support and knowledge from a novice when handling psychosis.
Working privately is nice. Some articles explain a link between anger in association to their own failings. Going through the process might be embarrassing. Keep these thoughts private assists in promoting thoughts that prevent the healing process. Write letters that will not be sent. More options include private drawing, painting or ranting session in a quiet location. Express all of it while taking precaution to go out into the woods or until everyone leaves the house. Carry a tape recorder or dabble in art or writing. This is a great cover for an activity people perceive as hostile even though it makes everyone more capable and happy. It is for personal well-being. Audiences are negotiable.
The important part of the site is having information that relates to common issues most people experiences. Every person experiences it uniquely. Personal experiences do not reflect on other people even when people have similar experiences.
Productive meditations are available on ChaKation. Meditations stimulate sensory information and relaxation. They are purposeful and offer direction to unbind common perceptions of the world and mental blocks. A personal favorite is the Ying-Yang Meditation. Currently basic prose impacts many people's decisions. Deciding everyone is either a Hero or Villain is unrealistic. The real world does not function with Heroes and Villains. There are only challenges and successes; ergo, we are partially heroic and villainous. This applies to everyone. Life is never that exciting.
Hopefully, this offers further assistance so everyone has a great experience with the website. While it is mostly informative, there are aspects that need further clarification. It is important to know when to ask for help.
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Friday, April 29, 2011
Socially Accepted Lies
Ways people lie, include, what they think someone needs in life to make them a better person. We are accustom to lying to be unique or defend ourselves from exposing true intention, such as, men saying beautiful women are intelligent or intelligent women are beautiful. It is part of a game plan to be memorable and dodge appearing shallow.
There is another aspect of lying; wherein, people feel as though words are a favor. They tell a beautiful girl they are intelligent so they pursue intellectual pursuits or tell an intelligent person they are beautiful so they improve outward appearances. While this is functional, to an extent, people rely on what others say when creating a self image as a basis for life decisions.
Beauty, intelligence, creativity and most traits are subjective. In addition, it is difficult for people to assess themselves. Though a person thinks they are doing someone a favor, they might be causing damage. This is another form of gossip that contributes to limiting potential. A beautiful person might be wasting years of their life going to school only to appear foolish.
A general ideal is everyone sees the same thing. People might feel as though someone is sabotaging them through gossip; however, everyone hears and sees similar information. The person is otherwise being kept out-of-the-loop, because no one is willing to be truthful.
There are few actions individuals have against this; however, it is possible to dismiss the information and attempt to compile a realistic self image through measurable achievement.
If a person dates frequently or encounters people taking an interest in their physicality, they are probably attractive. Extremely attractive people report problems with the same gender being overtly competitive or jealous. Sometimes they are accused of wrongdoing. They might be slandered as being promiscuous and experience people avoiding them or calling them a snob. Several of these actions are hostile; therefore, there is no guiding source of information confirming they are attractive. In fact, attract is defined as, "to gain admiration, attention and implies very pleasing qualities." Ergo a person can be beautiful without being attractive.
Intelligent people suffer similar problems. As a person of above average intelligence, people might feel inhibited around them; however, they seem like nice and frequently ask questions. People with obvious intelligence are threatening. They might seem snobbish talking about high grades and taking advance placement classes. Intelligence is preferred making someone feel insecure, shy. Some might feel aggression is necessary to maintain personal worth.
Though intelligent and able to prove it through measurable tests, intelligence is defined as, "the ability to learn or understand from experience." While understanding concepts in a book or memorizing information, the situation developing amongst peers is hostile. Through expansive periods of time, they are not learning from experience, learning information though one mode, yet not all modes.
People mature and resolve personal issues. In college a bully apologized for their immature behavior. It was nice seeing them again; however, we did not exchange contact information. If nothing else, as an adult it is easier to avoid unfriendly people.
This brings me to a final remark on the issue. When people become accustom to hearing the same comments repeatedly, it is difficult to dismiss. There are books and shows orientated towards relationships. One tip is to be unique and memorable. Snub a pretty girl and compliment an average looking girl. This provokes interest to get a date.
This might be acceptable for one-night-stands; however, is someone really saying they do not like you or they do like you. If a beautiful woman keeps hearing she is ugly, she will probably believe it and the approach no longer works. If an average looking woman keeps receiving compliments, she will probably believe it and want more from relationships because she is so attractive. Either way, women stop responding. The underlying premise is to say something they do not hear all-the-time.
Considering it is socially acceptable to lie about so many topics, it is probably better to dismiss everything a person says and try to figure-it-out for yourself. I like it to a degree, because negative statements are dismissed. No one really knows what anyone is saying anymore. I dislike it to a degree, because compliments are as easily dismissed.
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There is another aspect of lying; wherein, people feel as though words are a favor. They tell a beautiful girl they are intelligent so they pursue intellectual pursuits or tell an intelligent person they are beautiful so they improve outward appearances. While this is functional, to an extent, people rely on what others say when creating a self image as a basis for life decisions.
Beauty, intelligence, creativity and most traits are subjective. In addition, it is difficult for people to assess themselves. Though a person thinks they are doing someone a favor, they might be causing damage. This is another form of gossip that contributes to limiting potential. A beautiful person might be wasting years of their life going to school only to appear foolish.
A general ideal is everyone sees the same thing. People might feel as though someone is sabotaging them through gossip; however, everyone hears and sees similar information. The person is otherwise being kept out-of-the-loop, because no one is willing to be truthful.
There are few actions individuals have against this; however, it is possible to dismiss the information and attempt to compile a realistic self image through measurable achievement.
If a person dates frequently or encounters people taking an interest in their physicality, they are probably attractive. Extremely attractive people report problems with the same gender being overtly competitive or jealous. Sometimes they are accused of wrongdoing. They might be slandered as being promiscuous and experience people avoiding them or calling them a snob. Several of these actions are hostile; therefore, there is no guiding source of information confirming they are attractive. In fact, attract is defined as, "to gain admiration, attention and implies very pleasing qualities." Ergo a person can be beautiful without being attractive.
Intelligent people suffer similar problems. As a person of above average intelligence, people might feel inhibited around them; however, they seem like nice and frequently ask questions. People with obvious intelligence are threatening. They might seem snobbish talking about high grades and taking advance placement classes. Intelligence is preferred making someone feel insecure, shy. Some might feel aggression is necessary to maintain personal worth.
Though intelligent and able to prove it through measurable tests, intelligence is defined as, "the ability to learn or understand from experience." While understanding concepts in a book or memorizing information, the situation developing amongst peers is hostile. Through expansive periods of time, they are not learning from experience, learning information though one mode, yet not all modes.
People mature and resolve personal issues. In college a bully apologized for their immature behavior. It was nice seeing them again; however, we did not exchange contact information. If nothing else, as an adult it is easier to avoid unfriendly people.
This brings me to a final remark on the issue. When people become accustom to hearing the same comments repeatedly, it is difficult to dismiss. There are books and shows orientated towards relationships. One tip is to be unique and memorable. Snub a pretty girl and compliment an average looking girl. This provokes interest to get a date.
This might be acceptable for one-night-stands; however, is someone really saying they do not like you or they do like you. If a beautiful woman keeps hearing she is ugly, she will probably believe it and the approach no longer works. If an average looking woman keeps receiving compliments, she will probably believe it and want more from relationships because she is so attractive. Either way, women stop responding. The underlying premise is to say something they do not hear all-the-time.
Considering it is socially acceptable to lie about so many topics, it is probably better to dismiss everything a person says and try to figure-it-out for yourself. I like it to a degree, because negative statements are dismissed. No one really knows what anyone is saying anymore. I dislike it to a degree, because compliments are as easily dismissed.
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